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moms and dads! i need your help. my 16 year old son was detained at the police station for a few mins because he was caight taking 4 packs of cigarettes and a couple of gums..

when we got home he said that his friends forced him to do that and will beat him if he wont..

my son is a good boy but his friends are not.. they meet everyday that school.. what should i do? send him off to his grandparents and continue his studies there? talk to the parents of his friends?

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First off, calm down. I know this is difficult for you but you must stay calm for your son's sake.

This is indeed a problem. Peer pressure is something the teens can all relate to. Bullying as well nowadays has grown rampant. Taking him to your parents house and changing his school is a good idea but there is always a possibility that he will encounter the same problem with a different crowd. Have you considered sending him to a military school? I suggested this because military schools nowadays have programs that are specific to this kind of cases, or related to this case. Sending him there might be what he need to break his undesirable habits for occuring. There a lot of Teen Military Schools to choose from and by checking this out, looking for the best one for your son will be easier. All information you need can be found here. Consider what I am suggesting and think it over if this is really what your son needs.

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why is it. that see some kids grow-up normally. is it my fault why he has become like this?

my son needs a direction in life. he needs to see that what he has is wrong, that he wont do it again.

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I think you should send him off to him grandparents or you send him off to other school. If you talk to his friend's parents, they will still beat him when they got him at school. Even you give parenting advice or warn them not to touch your son, their sons still going to beat your son in school. So, you better decide whether you send you son off to his grandparents or find another school to transfer him there.

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Sorry for grammatical errors