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My husband and I adopted Tom, he is a nice boy. But he is addicted to computer games in these days, and I tried to stop him for the game seemed violent. However, he didn’t listen to me anymore, and he even go out with his play fellows and they drink wine together, what's worse, they often destroyed the public property when they are drunk. My husband and I worried about him so much and we decided to install a keylogger on his PC so that the violent games can be blocked and we can know what he is doing online. At the same time, we want to install an iphone spy on his iphone so that we can know where he is going, I posted my problem here because I googled it and I find this forum is for parents. Maybe some parents have similar problems with us, and they can help us. I'd like to know if someone can recommend a mobile spy for iphone, I don't mind the price if it is a safe one.

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My husband and I adopted Tom, he is a nice boy. But he is addicted to computer games in these days, and I tried to stop him for the game seemed violent. However, he didn’t listen to me anymore, and he even go out with his play fellows and they drink wine together, what's worse, they often destroyed the public property when they are drunk. My husband and I worried about him so much and we decided to install a keylogger on his PC so that the violent games can be blocked and we can know what he is doing online. At the same time, we want to install an iphone spy on his iphone so that we can know where he is going, I posted my problem here because I googled it and I find this forum is for parents. Maybe some parents have similar problems with us, and they can help us. I'd like to know if someone can recommend a mobile spy for iphone, I don't mind the price if it is a safe one.

Kindly help, thanks in advance.

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With this type of problem, it does seem nice to have those monitoring systems but we cannot always guarantee if they're 100% protected from the violence and dangers of the online world. Setting up a clear rule on computer usage might limit his exposure online and make sure he knows what the consequences are whenever he breaks the rules. Be firm about the rules you impose so that he will know that you're serious about giving consequences. Kids nowadays need consistency when it comes to parenting. Technology can play a large part in improving our way of living but there are times where it can also be disadvantageous. It's normal for teens to defy our rules but it is how we deal with our defiant teens that makes it more challenging. If we do it right, then parents will definitely get good results in the end.