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A friend of mine found out that his 14 year old daughter have already had sexual experience with her boy-friend. Well, I was also very disappointed, but who knew.
Now he is afraid of the consequences. He might talk to her about it if he knew that it could happen so early.
Parents should talk with their children early and often about sex.
Kids have lots of questions about sex, and they often say that the source they'd most like to go to for answers is their parents. Start the conversation, and make sure that it is honest, open, and respectful. If you can't think of how to start the discussion, consider using situations shown on television or in movies as conversation starters. Tell kids candidly and confidently what you think and why you take these positions; if you're not sure about some issues, tell them that, too. Be sure to have a two-way conversation, not a one-way lecture. Ask them what they think and what they know so you can correct misconceptions. Ask what, if anything, worries them.
We must prevent our children from making ill-considered steps.
What do you do to prevent your children from early sex?

Posts: 41

Before having sex, you need to be mature not only physically but also psychologically. The latter I think is more important. Someone is ready to do this at the age of 16, someone − aged 21 years and some may be later.
Age when you start sexual life is not as important as the attitude to that. Both boys and girls should know about contraception, abortion, venereal diseases, AIDS even before puberty age. You have to explain that sex has not to be because of curiosity and alcohol, and, finally, sex will be for love!

Posts: 41

Before having sex, you need to be mature not only physically but also psychologically. The latter I think is more important. Someone is ready to do this at the age of 16, someone − aged 21 years and some may be later.
Age when you start sexual life is not as important as the attitude to that. Both boys and girls should know about contraception, abortion, venereal diseases, AIDS even before puberty age. You have to explain that sex has not to be because of curiosity and alcohol, and, finally, sex will be for love!

Posts: 15

Unfortunatly, the very small amount of parents speak with children the right way. Someone try to explain that early sex isn't good, saying smth like that: "Don't do this! Sex is not good! My first sexual experience was when I was 65 years old!")). Or women who were abandoned or deceived might say: "Don't trust men! Don't have sex, it will bring you unhappiness, you'll be deceived and for sure will get horrible diseases!" Of course, I exceed, but such parents most likely will get uncontrolled children which do everything they want because of lack of right sexual upbringing.

Posts: 46

It's our culture - to consider that sex is something "dirty" and not very decent thing to do. And also that all men want is only sex and that girls should never have sex before marriage But what is actually more natural in our live than sex? Also we should finally understand that there are so many information sources right now that our children will anyway find out everything they want - so why don't we provide them with all the information - in a good form and at good age? But be sure it's not a book science for you - is your sexual life a powerful positive emotions source for both you and your partner? I believe our healthy attitude to sex, which children feel of course, is one of the most important things.